Scott Heiner
During the holidays last winter, I wrote an article about
the deeper value of food and its importance to society. I recently came across an article in the
Deseret News with a similar message. I
could try to paraphrase, but the author says it so well that I think I’ll just
forward it as is, slightly trimmed down for length.
The Joy of
Food
By
Kristine Frederickson
Deseret News-Faith Section, 27 March 2019
A number of
years ago I was in Prague, Czech Republic. When traveling, I never ask the
hotel concierge to recommend a restaurant. They often work with certain
eateries and send you to the fancy-dancy places for tourists. No thanks. But
ask the bellhop, or the clerk behind the desk, or a local on the street to
suggest a great local restaurant and you will rarely be disappointed.
Our hotel
receptionist recommended a cellar, family-style restaurant about two blocks
from where we were. We descended patterned-tiled stairs and once inside the
restaurant, brightly colored, floor-to-ceiling murals of local scenes and
costumed Czechs adorned the walls. A local band vigorously played joyful Czech
polkas on fiddles, a bagpipe-like instrument, an accordion and with the
requisite brass section.
I ordered a
scrumptious goulash: beef simmered in a thick sauce of sweet tomatoes slathered
in juicy, tender onions, accompanied by a basket of dense, dark bread. My
sister, Stacie, and I split a spiced-apple strudel and fruit-filled kolach for
dessert.
We shared a
long table with some locals and a police group visiting from Germany. Most
spoke at least broken English, and as I am able to sufficiently massacre
German, we laughed and talked together, sharing lists of places to visit, and
stories and pictures of home and families. Everyone was soon swaying, dancing
(some onstage with the band), clapping and singing along. I’ve had many
memorable eating experiences, but I will never forget that delightful evening.
In 1873,
Elder Orson Pratt of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, in a
sermon on the Resurrection, opined on what heaven would be like. He believed we
would enjoy socializing together as we do here, and we will, “no doubt eat and
drink in an immortal state, but whether it will be necessary to do this is
another question entirely.” He reasoned, “’The Twelve Apostles,’ Jesus said,
‘shall eat and drink at my table, and shall sit upon twelve thrones, judging
the twelve tribes of Israel,’ showing that the Lord will have a table, and that
he will have food upon it, and that they will eat and drink at that table. …”
(Journal of Discourses, 16:326-337)
My personal,
fervent, hope is that we will not only eat and drink but food will contain no
calories and both bread and chocolate will be food group staples.
Of course, Elder
Pratt’s thoughts, and my hopes, are our own. However, he hits upon something
that is important and consequential in mortality. Many wonderful memories are
built around kitchen counters where people gather and prepare meals, around
tables where family and friends eat and converse together, and around social
gatherings where food plays a role — very often enhancing the experience.
I, for one,
can’t begin to count the friendships and joyful, loving relationships that have
developed and deepened over shared meals, at book groups graced by finger
foods, appetizers and desserts and at other food-themed gatherings.
[An] article,
"9 Scientifically Proven Reasons to Eat Dinner as a Family" on goodnet.org listed a
number of “science-based reasons” that prove “family dinners are important,”
but the data can be applied to other social gatherings, including, “Eating
meals together strengthens family bonds as it provides … a sense of security
and feeling of belonging.” Sharing food together strengthens “emotional and
mental health,” intellectual achievement, and helps “reduce the tension and
strain from long hours” at work, in or out of the home.
Humans need
food to live and they need sociability to thrive. While all things must be done
in moderation, eating and socializing included, our loving Father in Heaven has
provided us with opportunities to create lasting memories by combining food and
friendship in ways that will cement bonds of love and affection and last well
beyond mortality.
Kristine Frederickson teaches part time at BYU. Her views are her own.
I’ve often wondered if they eat food in heaven and I’m encouraged
to have the opinion of Elder Pratt that we will do so. It’s comforting to think our association with
loved ones in heaven will continue with food involved. If I somehow manage to get there, I wonder
what they eat. I do hope the menu
includes cheese, mushrooms and nuts, otherwise it wouldn’t be heaven.
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